Tuesday 25 March 2014

Beginner's Guide: Buying your first woven wrap

The world of woven wraps can appear huge and over-whelming when you are looking to purchase your first wrap. I've written this guide in an attempt to make it seem more straightforward, and help you choose the correct wrap for you and your child.

Size
The first thing to decide on is what size wrap you would like. Most wraps are roughly the same width, and it is the length that varies. The length you need depends on two things – what carries you are hoping to do, and your size/build. 

For a beginner who wants to do a basic front carry with a young child, I would recommend a size 6 for average build, and a size 7 for people of a bigger build.  However, its always worth trying out a couple of wraps at a local sling library to see what length you prefer using.
Average length for each size (although this can vary between brands):
     Size 2 - 2.7m
     Size 3 - 3.2m
     Size 4 - 3.7m
     Size 5 - 4.2m
     Size 6 - 4.7m
     Size 7 - 5.2m
     Size 8 - 5.7m


Budget
There is a woven wrap out there to suit every budget, from £30 up to hundreds of pounds. For a decent woven wrap, which should be suitable from birth through to toddler-wearing, expect to pay about £50 to £100 depending on size and blend. However, lower priced wraps are available, and are still lovely to use, and can be great for when your child is small, but may not be as supportive as your child gets bigger.


Blend
As with any fabric product (e.g. clothes, curtains etc), wraps come in a variety of different blends. Different fabric blends will wrap in different ways, and which blend you choose is entirely up to you. I've listed a few typical pros and cons of common wrap blends here:

100% Cotton
Cotton is a fantastic place to start. Easy to wash and care for, softens up quickly, and very supportive for a younger child. Some people find a cotton wrap less supportive as their child gets bigger, but this really depends on the individual wrap, how the wrap has been woven, and the density of the weave. If you buy a good quality cotton wrap, you can't go far wrong! 

Bamboo/Cotton
A bamboo blend is also a lovely blend for a first wrap, and the bamboo makes the wrap easy to use. Bamboo makes the wrap very soft from new, and allows it glide easily into place. Needs a little extra care when washing, but is generally very sturdy.

Linen/Cotton
A linen blend is often favoured by people wrapping a slightly bigger child, as it can offer a bit of extra support. It is very easy to wash and care for, but is likely to be slightly 'crispy' if bought new, and may require a little bit of breaking-in.

Hemp/Cotton
Similar to linen, a hemp blend will give a lot of extra support when wrapping a bigger child. It also requires breaking-in when new, but when softened it is amazing to wrap with. Easy to care for and wash.

Silk/Cotton
A silk blend wrap can be lovely to wrap with, as the silk allows the fabric to glide into place, and they are often quite soft from new. Although silk requires a little bit of extra care when washing, I would still say that it would make a lovely first wrap. However, a silk blend wrap is often slightly more expensive compared to other blends.

Wool/Cotton
A wool blend wrap can be very comfortable and snuggly, especially when wrapping in the winter. The wool can feel lovely and soft on your shoulders, making it very comfortable. However, wool blend wraps need to be washed with extra care, as they can be 'felted' if incorrectly washed, which would unfortunately mean that the wrap is no longer safe to use. Wool blends can sometimes feel itchy when new (but this really varies).

Breaking-in
I have mentioned the term 'breaking-in' various times, and this simply refers to the fact that some wraps, when new, will arrive feeling quite stiff and crispy and will need a bit of work to soften then up. This may be as simple as giving them a wash, steam iron and a bit of use. Similar to a new pair of jeans, wraps will become softer and more comfortable with a bit of use. 

Thickness and Density
One of the other things that may affect your choice of wrap is how thick it is, and how densely it is woven. Thicker, denser wraps can be wonderful with bigger toddlers, but can be more difficult to learn to wrap with. By trying a variety of wraps, you may find that you prefer a certain thickness, but again this may change as your child grows. Many companies give the weight of their wraps in grams per square metre, and others will simply give a description e.g. medium thickness.
To give a rough guide to weights:
Under 180g/m2 would be a particularly thin wrap.
Around 220g/m2 to 260g/m2 would be an average, medium weight wrap.
Over 300g/m2 would be considered particularly thick.


There are hundreds of different brands out there, with new ones emerging all the time. If unsure, ask questions, get to a sling meet to try out different wraps, and above all, have fun wrapping your baby!